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I Developed My Own Problem-Solving Method Called S.E.E.D.S

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Sometimes, the smallest tasks can unravel the deepest knots within us. Not because the task itself is complicated—but because the way we approach the task becomes entangled with thoughts, feelings, and subtle pressures we don’t immediately recognize. That realization came gradually for me. I wasn’t trying to create a new method or claim ownership over wisdom that already exists. Rather, I was trying to find a way to untangle the invisible threads that so often hold me back from moving forward—especially when something meaningful is at stake. This is how S.E.E.D.S. came to be. It’s not a revolutionary method. It’s a refinement. A personal compass drawn from existing ideas, grounded in intuition, but steady with realism. It helps me pause, reconnect, and gently work through life’s everyday challenges—without losing myself in perfectionism or hesitation. Let me show you how it quietly revealed its value, in a moment I didn’t expect. S – Stop & Sense The first step is ...

Ramadan Reflections: Fasting, Hydration & the Subtle Art of Healing

The first few days of Ramadan always bring a shift—not just in routine but in awareness. There’s an unmistakable clarity that comes with an empty stomach, a quietness in the body that makes everything feel lighter. I’ve been thinking a lot about the way fasting isn't just about abstaining from food and water—it’s about creating space for the body to do what it was designed to do. A few days ago, I stumbled upon a video of Dr. Barry discussing how the body heals itself when given the right conditions. He spoke of the importance of energy conservation, hydration, and an alkaline-supportive diet. It made me realize how often we expect health to come from external sources—supplements, treatments, routines—when in reality, much of healing is simply about not interfering. When we fast, we remove one of the body’s biggest daily tasks: digestion. The energy that would have gone into breaking down food can now be redirected toward cellular repair and detoxification. It’s a form of surrend...

The Quiet (and Destructive) Habits That Shape Us

There are habits so deeply woven into our lives that we fail to see them as harmful. They do not scream for attention like vices or addictions, yet they erode us slowly, shaping our thoughts, our energy, our being. Some of these habits feel small, insignificant, even harmless—but over time, they become the lens through which we see the world, and worse, the cage that holds us back. I have come to realize that destruction is rarely loud. It often whispers. 1. Not Listening to the Body The body does not demand; it suggests. A slight ache, a restless night, a heavy stomach—these are quiet nudges, reminders that something is off balance. Yet, instead of listening, we push through. We eat beyond hunger, numbing ourselves to the discomfort that follows. We steal hours from sleep, convincing ourselves that exhaustion is normal. We ignore the tightness in our chest, the tension in our shoulders, assuming it will pass. But the body is not a passive observer; it keeps score. The gut—where mo...

How I Approach Ramadan This Year

The moon has been sighted. The rhythm of life shifts. Tomorrow, I will wake before dawn, take a sip of water, and surrender to the fast. But this time, I want it to be different. Not just an act of abstinence but a passage into something deeper. In the past, I have fasted, but have I truly fasted ? Have I only deprived my body while my mind remained restless? This Ramadan, I want to step beyond the surface, beyond the ordinary fasting of hunger and thirst, into a fast of the soul. Imam Al-Ghazali, in Ihya Ulumuddin , describes fasting in three degrees. The first, Ṣawm al-ʿUmūm , is the common fast—refraining from food, drink, and physical desires. The second, Ṣawm al-Khusūs , is deeper, requiring discipline of the senses: guarding the tongue from idle speech, lowering the gaze from distractions, and shielding the heart from negativity. Then there is the highest level, Ṣawm Khusūs al-Khusūs —the fasting of the soul. At this level, the heart detaches from worldly concerns and is absorbed...

The Strength of Resilience

The word resilience has taken on a deeper meaning for me in recent times. Watching the unwavering spirit of the Palestinian people in the face of unimaginable hardship, I see resilience not as a soft, passive endurance but as an unbreakable force. It is not just about surviving; it is about standing firm, refusing to be diminished, and carrying one's truth with dignity. They do not ask the world to be kinder, nor do they beg for sympathy. Instead, they embody a presence so strong that even oppression cannot erase them. This, to me, is true resilience—an energy so powerful that it bends adversity to its will rather than being shaped by it. Resilience Is Not About Blind Positivity There is a common misconception that being resilient means being endlessly positive, smiling through pain, and ignoring reality. That is not resilience; that is avoidance. True resilience acknowledges suffering but refuses to be consumed by it. It does not deny the existence of darkness, but it does not al...

My Blog Is Not for Casual Reading… But It’s Not Complicated Either

There are times when I wonder who exactly reads my words. Are they here out of curiosity, or are they searching for something deeper? This blog is not a place for quick entertainment, nor is it a collection of light reads to pass the time. But at the same time, I don’t write to complicate things. Clarity matters more than complexity. A Space for the Spiritually Curious This blog is for those who are on a journey—not necessarily in a religious sense, but in the pursuit of something beyond the ordinary. If you're looking for reflections that challenge, not just amuse, then you might find something here that speaks to you. Not for Light Reads, But Also Not Overcomplicated I don’t weave my thoughts into intellectual knots. Simplicity does not mean shallowness, just as depth does not require confusion. Some truths are best understood when spoken plainly. That is the kind of writing I choose. Universal but Meaningful While my words come from my own experiences, they are not bound b...

What Does Maturity Mean to Me

The journey of life often feels like navigating a labyrinth. Some paths seem endless, others loop back to where they started, and then there are those rare moments of clarity, where a door opens, and everything makes sense. It's in these moments that I’ve come to understand maturity—not as a destination but as an unfolding within me, a way of seeing life with new eyes. Maturity as Harmony Between Strength and Compassion I’ve noticed how often life demands a delicate balance between standing firm and showing kindness. Imagine a situation where a friend or colleague says something hurtful. The immediate reaction might be anger or defensiveness, but maturity lies in pausing and choosing to respond with understanding. Instead of escalating the situation, asking them why they feel that way could uncover their own struggles. By holding boundaries with strength while extending compassion, relationships can grow instead of fracture. This balance allows for harmony in even the most challeng...